Monday, September 28, 2009

Out of the ordinary

I'm 32 weeks pregnant now (8 months for those that prefer it in that form).

When I last saw my doctor we talked about her being out on vacation close to my due date.

Normally there are 5 other doctors that would cover in her absence. Unfortunately I'm not very found of the other choices and I don't want whoever is on call. I want someone familiar. I suggested another female OB in town that friends have had good experiences with so my doctor put a call in to her and guess what, she will be out of town too!

We talked a little more about what I'm looking for in a provider. I want someone who:

1. Wont rush me
2. Wont push medications on me
3. Isn't cut happy
4. Has good bedside manner and will listen to what *I* want (after all, I'm the one having the baby).

My doctor concluded I would probably do great with a midwife and thus she suggested a new one in town : Lisa Freeland.

In case you're wondering what a midwife is exactly (I also highlighted some things to remember):

A Certified Nurse Midwife is licensed and registered by a State Board of Midwifery. In order to obtain these credentials a person must complete a nursing program and then continue with graduate studies specifically in the field of Midwifery. Midwifery education consists of the complete knowledge
of the female reproductive system. They are taught to diagnose and treat (including writing prescriptions). After their schooling, a graduate Nurse Midwife must pass a
national exam (their "boards" if you will). Relative to
their role in the health care system, they receive as
stringent an education as a physician only not in
the medical school tract.
In fact, Ivy League schools such as Columbia and Yale University have Midwifery programs.

A Certified Nurse Midwife (CNM) is able to care for the essentially healthy women for her obstetrical and gynecological care. She can render complete prenatal, intrapartum and post partum care as well as the diagnosis and treatment of the many common gynecological problems that affect women. In fact, Midwives manage women in all areas of their OB/GYN health including annual exams, pap smears, birth control, hormone replacement, infertility, and, of
course, all aspects of pregnancy and delivery. Midwives do not do surgery and they do not manage high risk problems. They work within a collegial relationship with a physician with whom she can consult or refer a patient. By law, a Midwife must have a physician to back her up. Once a person receives their credentials, their personal style can take many forms.
The most well known are the Midwives who do home births. In this environment, a Midwife has the ability to assist a
couple through the birthing process in a natural and comfortable milieu. It gives the Midwife the freedom to implement a total non-interventionist philosophy.
To the other extreme, and I believe the least known form of
practice, is the Midwife who chooses to mainstream. They are educated with the non-interventionist philosophy and incorporate that core education with a more expanded approach to providing care. These Midwives work in hospital settings (this is where Lisa works). They can be employed in the Midwifery department of a hospital, or like a physician, they work in private practices and are privileged to attend deliveries in the hospital.
Like the home birth Midwife, they utilize such techniques as talking to, walking with, massaging, medicating and showering the laboring patient to help decrease her discomfort. The hospital birth Midwife also has the availability (when she needs to use them) to benefit from modern technology such as fetal monitors, ultrasound, lab analysis and emergency equipment/personnel.

I went and met Lisa last Thursday and she was GREAT! She has hospital privileges and I can still deliver there but I think she will offer everything I'm looking for. She started as a regular nurse, than became a Labor & Delivery nurse and has been a midwife now for 16 years! She's delivered over 1000 babies. If I should happen to need a c-section she will call for one of the "on-call" docs to perform it but she will be there assisting. If I don't get an epidural she can provide labor support (as described above) and she will be there for ALL of the pushing, not just the baby catching. I will have my 37 and 38 week appointments with her while my doctor is on vacation. When she saw me at my 31 week appointment I was measuring 34 almost 35 weeks pregnant. Ive already gained 25 pounds and my back is feeling every bit of it. Thank goodness for pregnancy massage and good insurance that covers it!

The crib transition has been in full swing for almost 2 weeks now. Its been fantastic....until last Saturday. Both babies refused to nap. I finally gave up. Everett stayed up the WHOLE day from 7a-7p it was amazing. Macey on the other hand started to go down hill quickly around 430pm. I put her in her room and she fell asleep in her rocking chair.
I always wondered how parents got those pictures of kids sleeping in the oddest of places. My kids have always been great nappers so I never understood- now I do.
Along with their new independence of toddler beds and the little tikes table for meals & snacks, we got a new step stool! Here are the babies standing up at the kitchen island. They love it. They are able to see what I'm doing and they also like standing at the sink to wash their hands :)

Recently it started snowing here in the interior. Its beautiful. Its not staying on the ground but it is sticking to the rooftops and trees. I feel like Curt & I have been getting things done just in the nic of time (leaf blowing, studded tires on, screens out & windows cleaned etc). The kids LOVE the snow. The first day they saw it Everett walked outside and exclaimed " WOW!" It was so cute. They also love their snow gear and are eager to put it on everyday. I cant wait to take them sledding and to build a snowman. I think Everett will be super excited once he learns about "snow balls" :)

We had our 2nd annual bonfire last night. It was a good time. The babies stayed up and played till nearly 8pm and then I put them to bed and headed back to the party. We asked everyone to bring a lawn chair & a dish. We had a great spread of food and wonderful company :)
The last tidbits of news I have --- our sewer line broke about a week ago (luckily Curt & a friends husband who's a plumber were able to fix it cheaply), and this week our well line broke. I'm thankful that its not 40 below and its not the weekend but I really wish this house (or rather the things attached to it) would settle already. If it continues at this rate we may have to consider moving to another house. We expect some repairs due to the living conditions here and the fact that we are home "owners" but not the same 2 repairs year after year. They should get the well line fixed tomorrow.
My Paypal account was also broken into and transactions were being made that I didn't authorize! I called paypal & my bank and its all been worked out but I was not a happy mama!
Now that Ive filled you in I'm off to pick up toys and get myself ready for bed!

Monday, September 21, 2009

Toddler Bed Transitions - what a success!

Macey's Toddler Bed

Everett's Toddler Bed

Its been a while now that Curt & I have been tethering with whether or not to move the babies to toddler beds and WHEN to move them to toddler beds etc. We bought their cribs with the ability to convert it's just been a question about when.
With moving to toddler beds, the new baby coming, potty training etc there are just so many changes I didn't want them all to happen at once. When the twins had their 18 month check up I talked to our pediatrician about it and she thought we should wait until a few months AFTER the new baby arrived. My gut told me otherwise so yesterday on the mark of them turning 19 months we made the transition. We both agreed if it went horribly it would be just a few screws to make them cribs once again.

Well so far so good! Its been great! I think we've been making the transition slowly all along we just didn't realize it. We had previously baby proofed their whole room. We secured all the furniture and got rid of the dresser, we kept the toys minimal- books mostly. Then we started putting them in their cribs and sitting in the rocking chair reading them their story book before bed.
Now that we've made the transition everyone goes to their room, hops in their own bed and sits down to listen to the story. It sure is nice not having to lift two 20+ pound toddlers!
We've had 2 successful naps and on their first night of sleeping in the beds they even slept in!
This morning I heard them talking and Everett had wandered over to Macey's bed and was helping her play baby dolls. This afternoon I heard Everett talking and was expecting to see both toddlers when I realized it was only him that was awake and he had stayed in his bed! He didn't bother his still sleeping sister. yay!

We had thought that Macey was for sure ready for the transition (she had been trying to climb IN to her crib) and Everett was the reason we were kinda holding off. Come to find out (after 2 days) he was definitely ready and she well...she's working on it. She wants to get up and play and she takes FOREVER to fall asleep.

Curt & I set up cameras in their room so we could watch them after we put them down for naps/night time. Its neat to watch them sleep :)
I told Curt between using the little tikes picnic table for breakfast & lunch, and transitioning to toddler beds, my day to day life with them and the pregnancy is getting easier. They were really starting to get heavy!
Hopefully this will continue to go well, then we will welcome the new baby and a few shorts months after that we will be on to potty training. It's so fun to watch them grow and gain their independence!
Macey " What are you looking at?"
Everett " Who the heck are you calling?"
I can only imagine the conversations those two have just by looking at one another. Too cute!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

September in Fairbanks

Last Thursday Sept 10th, Curt & I decided we were going to try and float the river one more time before the snow comes. However we showed up to the kayak rental to discover that no one rents kayaks in Fairbanks after Labor day. Boo! We ended up going out to Chena Lakes in North Pole and had a nice walk instead. The dogs loved it!


The Chena River

me 7 months pregnant/29 weeks


Curt & I together, attempting to photograph ourselves
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On Sept 2nd the babies got their MMR shot. The nurse advised us that they could show symptoms as late as 7-14 days after the shot. Sure enough, Everett broke out in a rash that spread all over his body. That was followed by both babies getting a fever. Macey ran a solid 102 for 3 days!!!
Needless to say, me being 7 months pregnant, with 2 feverish, clingy, whiney, needy toddlers was really wearing on me.
Carolyn and Dad decided to come up on Sunday and essentially gave me the day off. It was great. I was able to shower in peace, run errands alone, and lounge on the couch.
They brought la few new toys a broom, a baby and a ride o(n truck) when they came and they played with the babies ....A LOT! Here are a few photos:
Everett & Vavu putting his new ride on truck together


Everett trying to push Vavu around in the laundry basket

Watching Sunday football in their Cleveland Browns Attire
*courtesty of Grammy Jen*


Later in the afternoon we decided to go to Snedden park for a while. The kids had a blast.
Curt met us there afterwork and I made sure the dogs got some good exercise while the babies were being entertained.


Ready, Set, SLIDE!

HA! HA! Whose the winner?!


Nana, Vavu, Everett & Macey

Daddy & Macey by the river

We had a nice dinner at home (well as nice as one can be with toddlers throwing rice all over the floor) and before we knew it the day was over!
I hope to have a few more relaxing days before the new baby arrives!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Labor Day & my 28 Week Ultrasound

I'm a little behind on picture posting so please forgive me:


Macey & Everett at Mcdonalds the day Nana Carolyn came to visit.



Everett & Macey reading books early in the morning! nice hair!



We're into having breakfast on our little tikes table these days



Everett found his dad's hat and decided this is how he would wear it. Curt thinks he looks like a gangster. Hes not a fan.

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In honor of Labor day on Monday night we BBQ'd at the Hills house. The babies had a great time. After dinner Mel gave them all a piece of cake covered in chocolate frosting. Here are a few of the pictures:

The Hills & Harpers having cake!



Dekar & Everett


Macey & Jordan


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Tomorrow I will begin my 29th week of pregnancy.
Yesterday I had an ultrasound done and today I saw my doctor. I asked Dr. Worrell (the sonogram doctor) if he could tell me how big the baby was measuring to which he replied " Your doctor didn't ask for the baby's size, she only asked for placenta and amniotic fluid". The ultrasound progressed and then he chimed in " but a good looking young lady whose as nice as you are can usually get me to do just about anything". LOL He went ahead and took some measurements. As of now the baby is measuring 3lbs 3oz and is in the 90th percentile! The baby is actually measuring a few weeks ahead of where I'm "supposed" to be. I told Dr. Worrell I probably wouldn't be seeing him anymore as we don't plan on having any more children. He said "well, if this baby continues growing at this rate you may see me again because your doctor may get worried about the size".
The gender is still a suprise and was positioned exactly as I said it was. Head down, body on my left and feet under my right rib. This baby is a mover!